# 308 Grass is Greener on the other side of the fence

(c) Terry Floyd Johnson, 2021 ( Zoua; the OutRyder; StarMane; the WayLight Listener )

Most of us see what other people are doing, and have thoughts we want to be like that, or we want to be that person, but these wants, are likes, daydreams, where we are the hero, the winner, etc.

We sometimes say we wish we were that person, could be as handy, could be like that person who is a wonder with women, or wonder with men.

All of these are simply liking to be something we’re not, and not seeing what work went into it to get that person where there at…liking means skipping all the pre-work, and just being like they are now, not looking at all the sweat and tears that got them where there at.

We do this because we want to be without doing, in other words, we want to do the top, without working to get there. You have to do to be able to reach the points you want to reach, your goals, your anticipations, your enjoyments of what you want to do or are doing.

What about those who have natural talents at things? They are born to have these characteristics, just as you are born with those you have. It’s what you do with your talents, skills, and abilities, which make or break your striving for your goal.

Understand you have to put in the time, the energy, the commitment to achieve your success in life. Success is what your after, Success in balance with the rest of your life. Success in one area and only doing that one thing can bring you great success, but it may also bring you great sorrow you didn’t do other things as well.

Trust your feelings.

One way to find new ways of gaining interests in other things, is daydreaming, and allowing your mind to look at things without focusing on anyone, till one strikes your fancy.

Write it down, so you don’t forget it. Look into it more as you have the interest to do so.

Is there something you want to do, or want to try, or experience…take your time, look into it till you’re ready to give it a go, and then do it.

Don’t compare yourself to other people, you both have different lifepaths, one isn’t necessarily better of worse than the other. Your life is what you make it; don’t be afraid to try new things; see if any of your friends are interested in the subject as well, and you can do it together.

Build your life the way you want it, without allowing yourself to not see the pitfalls, or going wild before you have all the facts at your disposal.

May the Microcosmic Force be with you right here and now!

# 307 Doing Good

(c) Terry Floyd Johnson, 2021 ( Zoua; the OutRyder; StarMane; the WayLight LIstener )

Why should we do good, with no strings attached:

1. It helps others, and by doing this we help ourselves, and create an avenue to realize our true selves
2. It can cause others to do the same thing, thus creating a wave of goodness that those who participate in, and those who see it can be influence to do acts of goodness themselves
3. Goodness in your heart, create goodness in your action and in your truth.
4. Goodness doesn’t fight upsetness, it doesn’t have to, upsetness breaks down by the goodness around it
5. Goodness is you, and you don”t have to create it- it is you
6. Act in the only way you can act to be true to yourself
7. Practice goodness/be goodness
8. Live your life your here and now in the brilliance of doing good for others, and do good for yourself
9. Watch the acts of goodness others do, and learn from their goodness, thus everyone is a teacher
10. When a person is blinded by their own misery, doing good, is giving them Microcosmic Force Blessings ( and Affirm Blessings if it feel right to do so )
11. The world is filled with goodness, but you have to open your eyes, your heart and your spirit to see and feel it
12. Blessings are the generators of goodness, in a simple act of giving what is the best for the person as they can accept it
13. Ergo, giving blessings to yourself, is you giving the best for you by enlightening your goodness
14. Love is filled with goodness, allow nothing else to blemish that
15. Goodness can be an act of a single person, etc., or a team, or a community, etc.
16. Goodness is sharing your creativity with others and learning from theirs, as well.
17. Loving and positive music is filled with the feeling of goodness and dance is that being guided by your inner goodness to express itself- AuthenticityBeauty, Brilliance, Sharing, Caring, Being, Here and now, are Goodness expressions and generators, as well

May the Microcosmic Force Blessings be with you, right here and now!

# 306 Are our Passions good or bad or indifferent in our Lives

(c) Terry Floyd Johnson, 2021 ( Zoua; the OutRyder; StarMane; the WayLight Listener )

In our daily lives we try to enjoy and build on our passions, but when these passions get the better of us it can lead to problems, legal problems, and criminal activities. On the other hand, our passion for what we do, bringing us happiness, work satisfaction, life okayness, is a benefit to you and all those around you, and that overall joy can effect hundreds if not thousands around you in ways you may not be able to believe.

Happiness comes from doing what we like, and doing it well, or discovering new ways of doing things, or seeing beauty where we once saw only disaster. Joy is the inner feeling which resonates with happiness, but is the inner joy you have within yourself, with no strings attach. You love you for simply being you.

Loving yourself, simply for being you, is the greatest treasure you can ever receive. It shows you give yourself space, understanding, belief in yourself, and stand behind you when you try out new things. You are an individual, happily loving yourself, and acting in the only way you can act to be true to yourself.

How do we bring this about:

1. Don’t fence yourself in to being what others want you to be….be yourself, always in all situations and in all action.

2. Being aware not all is roses and candy, but there’s going to be ups and downs in life, in situations, in behaviors, in people, in loved ones; we call communication, and/or sharing with loved ones, how do we handle this, by studying/by working on how to do the methods/and by living those communication methods that work for you.

3. Be open to trying new things ( I understand with the pandemic we need to be more careful with our actions, but even in this we need to be who we are, and not what a scourge wants us to be ), we need to know we are okay, and everyone who believes in themselves can be okay, too.

4. Deal with emotions as thoughts that draw energy to them by the amount of thought and discordant energy you put into them.

5. Being is another way of saying Totality, Wholeness, Singularity- we are a single organism and have no parts.

6. We work to transform the soul back into the spirit- as the soul is simply the lifepath the spirit has made up for this life journey, and we want to free ourselves from it, so we act in the only way we can act to be true to ourselves.

7. Education tells us how the Outside works, but doesn’t say how to leave the Outside on its own and follow our own free will given to us by freeing ourselves from the limitation of the soul or lifepath patterns generated as energy patterns we are tied to unconsciously.

8. Freeing ourselves from the soul and the limitations not seen by the spirit, for they tend to see things from rose colored glasses, and think their chosen being to come into by the soul, can do anything, and can get them killed off.

9. When a baby dies, or anything dies young or as an infant, it is sad for the family going through it, but for the one who died it was what they wanted, for they only wanted to be physical for a short time, to test out things, then to go back into spirit to continue with their meditations, studies, reflections and new ideas.

10. Trust is earned, and not given freely, without any safeguards.

May the Microcosmic Force be with you, here and now!

# 305 Individual Passions and Network Sharing of those Passions

(c) Terry Floyd Johnson, 2021 ( Zoua, the OutRyder; StarMane; the WayLight Listener )

Each of us has individual passions, likes, wants, and do, don’t, and so on. One of these is the desire to have everyone do what we do, or at least the majority, so we affirm ourselves everyday we’re doing right and others back this up. One in particular is this obsession with wearing clothing, for whatever reason, the majority want everyone to wear clothing, so they don’t have to look at a naked bodymind.

Seeing a naked bodymind, is not hurting you, and saying that it spoils my enjoyment of looking around, is simply saying you want to control your environment to your way of seeing what is right, wrong, improper, proper. No one is saying you have to go naked, but naked is a fashion statement, thus must have equal power with all other ways of covering or uncovering the bodymind,

Enjoying going naked in today’s societies has to be done in nudist camps, free beaches, nude beaches, hot tubs, and so on. You can be arrested for walking down the street naked. The majority has said its way is right and all must wear clothes at all times, are be called a miscreant, and can be arrested.

Nakedness does not harm anyone, its simply a way to enjoy your right to be you, and to allow your dress code be equal to all others.

Clothes in many instants, not only build sexual passion, but cause exactly what the person doesn’t want to be seen only as a sexual object.

Nakedness is a dress statement, saying that no clothes is a fashion, just as any other daily, living, dress fashion. It should be protected by law as a legal way to dress inside and outside, and at all public/private businesses, etc.

Another reason people want to dress, from severe to provocative, is to give out the kind of statement they want to make to the public at large, wherein nakedness says I want to be free of clothes, where those who dress in clothes, dress to be provocative- to severe and sterile as possible.

Why all the different types of dress, 1. weather, 2. sun, 3. insects, 4. environment, 5. freedom of movement, 6. color, 7. style, 8. fashion, 9. draw attention, 10. to create a suggestive sexuality to draw those who you are around to look at you as a sexual being, and ready to interact in a corresponding way, when getting to know each other 11. power, 12. putdowns 13. outsiders wanting to tear down you, and so on.

Xdei welcomes all different kinds of dress, and encourage co-mingling, but for those who are upset about nakedness, they will be shown an area where everyone is dressed. All get-togethers, etc. are clothing optional, unless specifically stating it for naturists only, or for clothes wearers.

May the Microcosmic Force be with you, here and now!

This is for when we have a place or a campus area where we can have gatherings, etc..

# 304 Psyche Fear

To understand Psyche Fear, you must first understand:

1. fear is an highly charged reaction to something within or without which scares you

2. fear may cause you to stop to a stand still- afraid to move

3. here is where the mind takes over, and starts looking at all the things it might be, thus creating emotional responses to each idea, thus adding emotional distraughtness and a rising fear ( in Dune the book and movie the Reverend Mothers say …fear is a mind-killer ) meaning it causes you to lose the ability to think clearly and to act responsibly

4. thus your ideas draw to it emotional energy within you and the more you relate to this irrational fear, the more emotional energy you draw to your fear and add to it

5. one fear can lead to a schematic of branches of the original fear

6. the more you invest in your psyche fear the deeper and more traumatize you become

7. till the fear is so much you can pass out from your own inner building of a character trait of fear

II. how do we face our fears

1. realize that the fear your feeling is emotional reaction, and start consciously stopping the wild thoughts, and focus on what to do do deal with the situation
2. realize dealing with what is causing the fear is less gut-wrenching, than dealing with it rationally, and with trusting your feelings
3. stop thinking about all the things it may be, and focus on learning what it is, and if it is a danger, how to get out of the situation
4. be aware you are more capable than you may think
5. find something you can use for protection, against any physical threat
6. Psyche Fear is handled by redirecting that emotional energy to working the situation
7. be cautious, don’t take any unnecessary chances
8. decide if its better to meet the fear head on, or find a place you can escape, if necessary, or gives you plenty of physical objects to use as attack weapons
9. realize you’re allowing your mind and your imagination run away with you
10. trust your feelings, and if you feel you are in danger, then get out of the house, etc. immediately and call for help or go to a friends then call
11. calm yourself by breathing deeply and letting your breath out slowly, till you calm down
12. listen calmly to see if you hear or feel any other signs of danger outside yourself, or if you’re calming down psychologically and are thinking and feeling clearly
13. listen to your feelings, and if it doesn’t feel right, then look into it and find why you are feeling this way
14. if it becomes to scary- to contemplate , then call someone, or your church, or your friend, or the police, but be ready to tell them what happened and try to stay calm
15. when it’s a dis-associative fear which is inner born and inner bringing more thoughts and then empowering them with emotional energy, so the fear builds from the bodymind energy, and from you being unable to stop your journey to living in fear, realize that it’s dis-associative because the fear has no basis, and thus its full gambit of anything you want to throw into it or them, so what is controllable quickly becomes out of control
16. Remember- stop yourself, do deep breathing, say to yourself, this fear is mental, and can be gotten through, but letting go of the fears driving the consensus of all them put together. take them on one at a time, and the more you work through them, you will soon find that others will disappear along with the fear you worked through
17. don’t deny fear, accept it that it’s happening, and look for the starting point of the fear, or work with it, through feeling, or symbolically work through them by role playing, or acting them out, to show you that they aren’t really scary, but simply showing you where you need to work on yourself, so you can turn fear into strength of character/purpose/action.

May the MIcrocosmic Force be with you, right here and now!